7 Ways to Prepare your Middle Schooler for College -




How to know if your teen is ready for high school, with tips to prepare them to be ready.  

Do you have middle schoolers at home, who are thinking about the college option? 

The other day I spoke with a homeschooling family, whose middle schooler was interested in going to college, when the time came.  

She was thinking about college for her daughter, and she wondered if there were things that she could do now, to help prepare her young teen with that future goal.

During our discussion, I came up with seven factors to look at, for your middle schooler, with the college option in mind.

Let's start with English skills: 

1. Whatever English curriculum you are using, take time to discuss what you read, using some literary analysis.

Does your curriculum, whether published or homemade, include critical thinking questions to discuss?  Is your child beginning to analyze what they are reading?  

There are, of course, many options for middle school English.  In our home, we used Oak Meadow, and also 7 Sisters Literature and English courses and lit guides.

Oak Meadow English 8 is all about introducing the components of good literature to your middle schooler.

We love Oak Meadow's focus on hands on learning, and how it works to meet the child when he is: head, hands and heart.

"Through this course, literature became something that my daughter looked forward to each day....She enjoyed learning about plot, setting, point of view, and characterization. But she when she got to symbolism, and foreshadowing, she was..." click here to continue with my review   

For many more ideas for middle school english, go to The Curriculum Choice, and search for middle school English.

2.  Write a lot! 

Encourage all kinds of writing, fiction, essays, reports, biographies, autobiographies, etc.

We all know how important writing skills are to the college student.  How is your child doing with their writing?  Do they have a chance to practice different types of writing? Are they finding a way to express themselves in the  written form? Use their interests to craft writing assignments which will be meaningful to them.  

One year, my daughter was really interested in airplanes and the airline industry, so that became the focus of her research report that year.  Another year, she was wanting to try her hand in story writing...so we focused on that, but still asked for some essay writing, to continue to build on those skills, too.

One of my favorite simple resources for writing, is the Spectrum Writing series.  I liked it was simple to use, and was full of writing prompts throughout the book. include different types of essays to write.  There are easy to follow instructions for each assignment, and they include a wide variety of writing skills to practice. 

The Curriculum Choice has many helpful reviews of writing curriculum, including IEW, etc.

3.  Consider using a composition evaluation service.

How do you know how your child is doing with their writing skills?  One resource that we found for that was from Write Shop, who will evaluate essays that you can send in to them.

4.  Encourage free reading.

Kids who read a lot, develop strong vocabularies. We  know that.  That will help a lot with college entrance testing, SAT, ACT, and college itself.  My daughter loved reading science fiction and adventure stories, and we encouraged that.  It doesn't have to be limited to good literature.

5.  Math - Get Pre-algebra done.

Most colleges ask for algebra 1 in 9th grade.  So a good understanding of pre-algebra during middle school can really help.  We used Teaching Textbooks, then went to Switched-On-Schoolhouse's, which helped my daughter with retention. There are many great resources for pre-algebra. 

6.  Consider providing practice in test taking.

We used hands-on approaches in our homeschool, with lots of unit studies.  But somewhere in 7th grade, we began to incorporate some quizzes and tests. 

Test taking skills are key to success in college.  And starting in middle school gives your child plenty of time to practice.  I hated to add this in, but starting in middle school gave my daughter plenty of time to get used to tests, and not be anxious about them.  Knowing how to take tests has helped her so much in college.

7.  Encourage their budding interests.

It's never too early to encourage our young teen's special interests.  And isn't this one of the reasons that we homeschool, anyway?  

My daughter's interests in irish dancing and student government activities, with Youth and Government, helped her get into college.  There are many ways to show your child's leadership skills, volunteering at church, assisting in a class in co-op are just a few.

Colleges want to know what your child is really about. They see lots of applications from students who are just doing activities to build up their applications.  But they want to see students who have interests that are real, and our homeschoolers can excel in that.

These are my favorite tips for preparing your middle schooler for college, while keeping the flavor of your homeschool strong.  

What would you add to the list?  Homeschooling is a great way to educate our kids, and to prepare them for future endeavors in their life, including the college option.

Below is a picture of my daughter's first day on campus, after graduating from our homeschool.  



Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,


Betsy




Betsy is mom to her now college grad, whom she homeschooled from day one.  She blogs at BJ's Homeschool, about the early yearshigh school & college and wrote the book - Homeschooling High School with College in Mind.   She offers free homeschool help through messages at BJ's Consulting

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The Art of Simple Book Making- Your Child is an Author!





Do you have a little writer in your family?  

When my daughter was little, she loved to tell stories and enjoyed make believe, dressing up in costumes, and creating stories with her stuffed animals.  

I wanted to find a way that she could do that, with a simple book making activity.

She was just learning what written words meant, and loved following along during our story times, but she was not yet ready to put the words on the page herself.  

Today, I'd like to share how to make simple books, step by step by:

  • Setting up the pages
  • Encouraging your child to dictate their story
  • Write their words on each page

Purpose of This Project

I decided to try some very simple bookmaking with her, to allow her to dictate a story to me, and create a small book, where she was the author.   

While making these little books, my daughter could see how her own words could be put together to make a book.

That was so exciting to her!  She felt so important, being an author.  

Supplies Needed

To do this project, all it took was: 
  • one piece of construction paper  
  • and some crayons!  
With that, my daughter made many simple books, full of three part stories...each with a beginning, middle and an ending.  

She was learning the components of a story just by making them.

This format can be helpful for older writers, too, if  they want to do some creative writing and don't want the stress of sitting at the computer, facing a blank page!  

To get started, let's talk about:


1.  Setting up the Pages


Supplies needed: Only one sheet of construction paper, crayons, felt pens or colored pencils,  stickers optional.

To start, just fold one piece of construction paper in half.  Folding the paper, you will then have spaces for page 1 and page 2....



Then the back of page 2....becomes page 3, and that is all that is needed for a three part story!  

We always wrote 'The End" on the last page, which my daughter could do with help.


Then the back of page 1, became the Title page.   

That was such an important part of the book, as my daughter's name went there as the author!  

At the same time, she was learning all about title pages.



Next, here are some tips to help.... 


2.  Encourage Your Child to Write Their Own Story

The fun of this project is that you can get your child to create their own story, with a beginning, middle and an ending.  Those are the three main parts of any short story!

The trick is to ask open ended questions.  Here is an example of a story that I helped my daughter to create.  

It is not fancy, it is the real deal!  I wrote the words for her, as I wanted her to focus on creating the words, not struggling to figure out how to write them.  

So next, let's look at how we did this, using a story that my daughter wrote.

3.  Sample Story


 FLOWERS DANCING ON THE ROAD

These are my daughter's words.

----How to help your child with page 1:


1.  Ask your child to draw something on the top half of page 1.  .....Anything.  

2.  Ask open ended questions about the drawing, to get her to talk about her picture.

3. For Preschoolers or K kids:  Write the words for your child.

Older kids can of course, write their sentences themselves or they could be turned into copywork, if that works better.

The important thing is that they are using their own words.  


 FLOWERS DANCING ON THE ROAD
Page 2 

Ask "What's next?"



----How to help your child with page 2:

Page 2 will be the middle of the story.  Start by asking your child..."What happens next?" 

Give a suggestion or two to get her started...Then have them draw again.... to illustrate their words.  

Now it's time to end the story.....  

FLOWERS DANCING ON THE ROAD
Page 3~The Ending


----How to help your child with page 3:

Next, turn to the back page, (the other side of page 2) & ask:
"What would happen next?" or "How does your story end?"

 This usually takes some discussion.  Then add their words to the page, ask for another picture, and have your child write "the end" below it.  

Finally it's time for the Title Page....


FLOWERS DANCING ON THE ROAD

Title Page



----How to help your child with the Title Page:


Just turn page 1 over, and that will become their title page.

Help your little one decide on a title.  Writing the story first make a lot of sense, as that let's your child develop the story in their own way.

We always did the title page last. Giving suggestions helped, too.

Have your child write their name, as the author and also for the illustrator.  

What better way to learn what author and illustrator means!


4.  Early Literacy Skills

What I love about this activity was that my daughter was learning early literacy skills, hands-on.  She was learning:

1.  The components of a book

2. That stories are made up of three parts, the beginning, middle and end.

3.  That written words have a purpose.

And when our precious ones write their own stories, they are also learning that their own words are important. 

There was nothing more precious than reading my child's story aloud, while she carefully turned the pages showing grandma and granddad, etc, her own words. 

Who knows...you may have a budding author in your midst!



Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,

Betsy



Betsy is mom to her now rising college senior, whom she homeschooled from preK through high school.  She blogs at BJ's Homeschool, about the early yearshigh school & college and wrote - Homeschooling High School with College in Mind.   She offers homeschool help through messages at BJ's Consulting


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Why I Am Thankful for Being a Homeschooling Mom




Here at BJ's Homeschool, I usually share about our homeschooling activities and the like.  

But today, I'd like to share something different....I want to focus on why I am thankful for being a homeschool mom.

With my daughter now a senior in college, I can see all the benefits that homeschooling has brought to her and to our family, much more clearly than I could when we were in the thick of things!

There are so many reasons why I am thankful for having homeschooled for 15 years.  

And in honor of Thanksgiving, I have also gathered up some of my family's favorite photos from our nature road trips....

Are you a nature-oriented family, too?

For Thanksgiving last year, my husband and I got together with our daughter and her friend, and enjoyed a wonderful meal together. (Our extended family is a continent away..)


We did an ethnic celebration this year.  You see, my daughter's favorite food is east indian food. Every week, when we could afford it, I would take my daughter to our local indian restaurant for lunch.  

HOMESCHOOLING HELPED WITH SENSORY NEEDS

When she was little, my daughter who has some sensory issues, was a very, very picky eater.  All she wanted to eat was soft foods, like macaroni and cheese, every day.  But she learned to like rice.  So I often took her to our little east indian restaurant, where she enjoyed her rice, and gradually added in other foods, too, like chicken curry.  

You see, it was also a soft food. This helped her to expand her food choices so well, that it became one of our favorite homeschool traditions!



I am thankful that I could build in activities during our homeschool day, that met these individual needs, with food, and everything else. 

And the fact that my daughter was a picky eater, ended up adding a lot of  variety of foods for our family.  Above, is one of my daughter's new favorites, tandori chicken.  


And what does she want to do in the fall...but go on a "field trip" to pick out a pumpkin...at the same place we used to go to for our fall homeschool field trip.....

HOMESCHOOLING BUILT A LOVE OF NATURE

Nature Road Trips - I love how homeschooling gave us ample time to explore my daughter's interests, and to pass on our love of nature...

We gave my daughter a camera, when she was 8....



....and she's been taking pictures ever since.  I loved teaching her about this favorite hobby of mine, through the years.  It even became a high school elective.


My husband is always snapping pictures of the mountain, Mount Rainier....


HOMESCHOOLING BUILT STRONG RELATIONSHIPS

I also love that my husband was a part of our daughter's education, from the start.  She still seeks him out for his wise counsel, as she decides on possible life tracks, and future possibilities.

Driving practice became a special time for talks with my teen.  And somehow doing short nature drives helped my daughter to feel comfortable to share her heart with me.

HOMESCHOOLING BUILT LIFE LONG INTERESTS

I love taking pictures of the trees.....tall and serene....and I passed my love of photography onto my daughter.  It is still a passion of hers...


She loves taking photos of the glorious colors in the fall....


I am thankful that my daughter still wants to do these nature photo trips with us...to the city and...


..............out to rivers and streams....


...stopping to watch the salmon come back to spawn........


I am so grateful that this love of nature has stuck with her.... It's in her heart.


IT ALSO TAUGHT that IT IS OK TO MAKE MISTAKES

Homeschooling taught my daughter, not only to love learning, but to know that she could make mistakes, too..........

She tends to be a perfectionist, like her mom.  And as a 2e kid, she hated it when she made any mistakes.

For years we avoided doing any quizes or tests, to focus on the joy of learning itself. 

She learned that it was not about avoiding making mistakes.  But that learning was a joy in itself.  And that we all make mistakes along the way.  

....And that making mistakes was a part of learning.

HOMESCHOOLING PREPARED HER WELL FOR COLLEGE

Homeschooling taught our daughter good study skills and gave her practice in organizing her own study schedule.  And it taught her to love learning, so when she got to college, she was already a motivated student. 

With our daughter now a college grad, my hubby and I are seeing the values of our homeschooling journey....

And how it has built family relationships, that have continued to be strong through the college years.

When our daughter encounters difficulties as a young adult, she knows she could turn to us for anything and that we would be there for her, no matter what.  

And we have together found wondrous surprises along the way....



My hubby and I are thankful for the joys that we have had, watching her explore her interests in college and find her way there.

One of those joys was watching her intern as a campaign manager for a city council person, as part of her Political Science studies.

She wants to run for office herself or work in the government in some way.  Can't wait to see where that will take her! 

Looking back...

Homeschooling has given us so much to our daughter and our family, including:

- helping with sensory issues
- building a love of nature
- building strong family relationships
- developing life long interests
- learning that it is ok to make mistakes
- preparing for college

  
Yet the homeschooling road is not an easy one.  There are twists and turns along the way.  Sometimes, very hard ones....

All the work of finding the resources and strategies that fit then changing them again, when they don't....correcting math work, finding a rhythm for our days,  dealing with the annual testing required in our state, and all those rainy afternoons...

Finding the personal time to take care of oneself, so you can give to your kids.

It all has a cost.  

But the homeschooling journey builds so much more than just an education.  

It builds family.  

And isn't homeschooling the best way to build a kiddo as well!  And the memories that we built through her homeschool activities, those high school activities, and the lifetime friends that we have made, through the years...are ones that we treasure.


The road ever beckons.....


Whatever my daughter encounters in her life as an adult, she knows that she has a strong foundation to lean on.  And she knows who she can come to when she needs to...

That is priceless.

May you find joy in your homeschool journey....One day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time...


It is all worth it!

My best to all of you and your precious families, too.  What makes you the most thankful this year?  

For those with college bound teens:

My teen got into each of the colleges on her list, with scholarship offers.  And it was not hard to help get her into college.  I wrote a book to share how we helped our daughter get there in 10 easy steps. 



Good news: Our ebook will become downloadable starting on January 20th. Tell your friends.

After helping my homeschooled high schooler get into each of the colleges she applied to, I wrote this guide below.

To share our most important tips on getting into college. It's on Amazonand now also is available as an Audio book.
What are people saying about it?

"This book guides the reader step by step through the maze of requirements for college AND gives the gift of comparing requirements for various types of colleges. I am beyond grateful for this book." Hannah, a homeschool mom

Plus a certified college counselor, Lessa Scherrer, wrote:  

"Betsy has a wealth of understanding and knowledge to share with the parents of college bound homeschoolers.  She provides support, encouragement and step-by-step advice on all aspects of the homeschool high school and college application process.."

I invite you to take a look at our book on Amazon. 

Would you like to get a free download of a Chapter of our book? 


Our First Chapter 
Recommended by: Lessa Scherrer, certified college counselor from College Inside Track as she wrote the intro.



Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,

Betsy
Betsy is a Christian and mom to her college grad whom she and her husband homeschooled through high school. She blogs at BJ's Homeschooland wrote 

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Homeschooling High School English - 3 FREE or Frugal Resources for Creative Writing




Homeschooling high school is a lot more fun with creative writing added to it.  And that can really help your high schoolers improve their essay writing skills as well. #homeschoolhghschoolenglishcurriculum #homeschoolhighschoolwriting #nanovwrimo   Note - This post may included affiliate links to products that we love and have used or would use in our  own homeschool. Please see my disclosure policy.



Are you teens wanting to try their hand at creative writing?  Or do they struggle with writing essays and you are wanting to try something different?