Homeschooling Children with 2e or ADHD






Summary:  How we homeschooled our 2e child with attentional and sensory processing issues.  Sharing our favorite homeschool elementary curriculum choices plus how we set up our days, to meet her child's needs.  #homeschool2e #homeschoolADHD #homeschoolelementary



Do your kids struggle with attention issues?  Or are they very active, have difficulty concentrating, or show signs of ADHD?

When my niece was young, she was a very active child.  She had difficulty concentrating on verbal directions.  She also was a sensory seeking child. 

Homeschooling was ideal for her, as it allowed me to adapt things to the way she learned best.  

With her difficulty with auditory processing, ie, concentrating on verbal directions, listening to the teacher talk in public school at the front of the class would have been a big struggle for her.

We wanted her to have the daily support of learning at home.  I tried a number of things to facilitate her learning, and through the years, these issues became less and less of a problem.  

I happened to have a background in Occupational Therapy, so I drew on that as we homeschooled our daughter.

My niece is now a college grad.  She made Dean's list her first year there, and is studying in their honors program. 

How we went about homeschooling her, when she was young... that is what I would like to talk about today.  

During the early years of preschool to 2nd grade, we focused just on the 3 R's, and did not concern ourselves with science or other subjects until later.  

Not that you need to do that, that is just how we approached things, as developing a strong background in the basics of math, reading and writing.

At the same time, we followed her interests, too.

First I'll be sharing about the curriculum we used during these early years.  

Then I'll talk about how we set up our homeschool day......with those all important breaks, and more.

1.  Early Elementary Curriculum Choices

So let's start with the beginning and how we did phonics.....           

Phonics


We chose Explode the Code (ETC), starting with the Primers. 

The approach used in ETC is great for visual learners, and my niece. It eliminated the struggle that we had with phonics previously, when her learning was more auditory (listening) based, although we did some auditory work, too, as she learned her sounds.


Reading


My niece wanted to be independent in things, even before she knew how to, which was a challenge sometimes.  

We started with the Bob Books Readers, after she finished her ETC primers.  She loved the funny little simple stories in these very early readers.

We then moved to the "I Can Read"series, and then just continued with their next readers, also picking from what they had at the library.


Going from one reader level to the next really helped to gradually build her reading and comprehension skills.  

For fun she loved getting audio books from the library to read independently.

We also liked some of the workbooks from Evan-Moor.  These provided a helpful structure and fun hands on activities at the same time.

We set up in a special reading corner........with a shelf that blocked out other distractions in the room.  It can be a nice break where your child could snuggle up with a book, anytime. 


Handwriting



My niece didn't struggle with handwriting, but lots of kids with sensory processing issues do.  We chose a Handwriting without Tears book.

We used a multisensory approach to handwriting, included making letters in finger paint, cutting, play dough play, etc. Click here for 9 Fun Ways to a Mature Grasp.

For more fun and easy ways to help with handwriting, to build up the small muscles and more, here are the posts from my series called Handwriting Helps.......





Math



We used Math U See, after spending our preschool/K years just doing math using manipulatives, math play, and making patterns. 

Learning to make 2 or 3 part patterns introduced her to the patterns of math. This was done with beads, etc.  Much of math work can be play and done on the floor.  Giving lots of control to your child in their lessons, with guidance, can help a lot with our ADHD kids.



Numbers and Patterns - another fun math resource


"Seeing" how math works is the ticket, but "Doing" is the best for early math, counting buttons, making cookies, and the fun of subtracting them. lol.  That is how my daughter learned to love math!

Art


And don't forget art!  We did a lot of arts and crafts, fingerpainting,
clay work, and some handwork, too.  Making it into a routine can also be a help.  

Handwork such as weaving, hand sewing little projects, etc can be a great way to develop attention span, direction following skills, and more, while coming up with a finished product.

The finished product can be a great help for building confidence.  And building attention span can be a lot more fun with projects, than just with homeschool lessons, of course.

Handwork activities can also be helpful go-to activities for fun and for when we had a hard day.  

All of these activities can help build attention span and concentration skills, while giving her a creative outlet.  

For more on elementary homeschool curriculum that we liked, please click here.

My friend from 7 Sisters Homeschool also offers an extensive list of quality Elementary Curriculum Resources here - Favorite Homeschool Curriculum for Elementary Grades.

2.  Setting up the Day





Attention Span Issues

Young active learners often do better with short learning periods, such as 15 or 20, or 30 minutes at a time.  Adding in a break in between each session, as needed, where your child plays, watches an educational show on tv, etc is often essential.

Rewards Can be A Help

My child liked to earn stickers, which she chose each week or two from the book store.  Earning stickers gave her a concrete reward. We always went over her sticker chart at the end of the week, to give her extra attention for her efforts.   

Every so often, we went to the dollar store, and got little toys that she then earned with her stickers.  

Nothing like stickers to build up and instill motivation for learning and completing one's work.  

Adaptations 

 Direction Following  


Whenever there are directions to be given, I always had my child play with a small toy for a figet.  This helped to lessen anxiety and concentration tended to improve.  

When there were two part verbal directions to be given, such as for simple chores, I would say the direction first, then ask her to repeat it to me.  

Later, when she was older, she preferred to write down any directions that were given.  That technique can help all the way through middle school.

Kids who have difficulty with verbal direction, tend to be visual learners.  That is why homeschooling can work so well.  

I could set her work up so that she could learn visually, instead of the way it would have been done at public school, with the teacher giving multiple verbal cues and directions all day.

Some kids like to use weighted blankets, and find that that helps calm their nervous systems.  

Even regular blankets can do that. This can gave some deep pressure, which could be very calming.  Some kids also benefit from weighted vests, which can provide that same deep pressure.



Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,



Betsy


Betsy is mom to her now college grad, whom she homeschooled through high school.  She blogs at BJ's Homeschool, about the early yearshighschoolcoll
egegifted/2e and wrote -Homeschooling High School with College in Mind, 2nd Edition.   She offers homeschool help through messages at BJ's Consulting 
and has had some of her articles picked up by the Huffington Post.

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7 Ways to Prepare your Middle Schooler for College -




How to know if your teen is ready for high school, with tips to prepare them to be ready.  

Do you have middle schoolers at home, who are thinking about the college option? 

The other day I spoke with a homeschooling family, whose middle schooler was interested in going to college, when the time came.  

She was thinking about college for her daughter, and she wondered if there were things that she could do now, to help prepare her young teen with that future goal.

During our discussion, I came up with seven factors to look at, for your middle schooler, with the college option in mind.

Let's start with English skills: 

1. Whatever English curriculum you are using, take time to discuss what you read, using some literary analysis.

Does your curriculum, whether published or homemade, include critical thinking questions to discuss?  Is your child beginning to analyze what they are reading?  

There are, of course, many options for middle school English.  In our home, we used Oak Meadow, and also 7 Sisters Literature and English courses and lit guides.

Oak Meadow English 8 is all about introducing the components of good literature to your middle schooler.

We love Oak Meadow's focus on hands on learning, and how it works to meet the child when he is: head, hands and heart.

"Through this course, literature became something that my daughter looked forward to each day....She enjoyed learning about plot, setting, point of view, and characterization. But she when she got to symbolism, and foreshadowing, she was..." click here to continue with my review   

For many more ideas for middle school english, go to The Curriculum Choice, and search for middle school English.

2.  Write a lot! 

Encourage all kinds of writing, fiction, essays, reports, biographies, autobiographies, etc.

We all know how important writing skills are to the college student.  How is your child doing with their writing?  Do they have a chance to practice different types of writing? Are they finding a way to express themselves in the  written form? Use their interests to craft writing assignments which will be meaningful to them.  

One year, my daughter was really interested in airplanes and the airline industry, so that became the focus of her research report that year.  Another year, she was wanting to try her hand in story writing...so we focused on that, but still asked for some essay writing, to continue to build on those skills, too.

One of my favorite simple resources for writing, is the Spectrum Writing series.  I liked it was simple to use, and was full of writing prompts throughout the book. include different types of essays to write.  There are easy to follow instructions for each assignment, and they include a wide variety of writing skills to practice. 

The Curriculum Choice has many helpful reviews of writing curriculum, including IEW, etc.

3.  Consider using a composition evaluation service.

How do you know how your child is doing with their writing skills?  One resource that we found for that was from Write Shop, who will evaluate essays that you can send in to them.

4.  Encourage free reading.

Kids who read a lot, develop strong vocabularies. We  know that.  That will help a lot with college entrance testing, SAT, ACT, and college itself.  My daughter loved reading science fiction and adventure stories, and we encouraged that.  It doesn't have to be limited to good literature.

5.  Math - Get Pre-algebra done.

Most colleges ask for algebra 1 in 9th grade.  So a good understanding of pre-algebra during middle school can really help.  We used Teaching Textbooks, then went to Switched-On-Schoolhouse's, which helped my daughter with retention. There are many great resources for pre-algebra. 

6.  Consider providing practice in test taking.

We used hands-on approaches in our homeschool, with lots of unit studies.  But somewhere in 7th grade, we began to incorporate some quizzes and tests. 

Test taking skills are key to success in college.  And starting in middle school gives your child plenty of time to practice.  I hated to add this in, but starting in middle school gave my daughter plenty of time to get used to tests, and not be anxious about them.  Knowing how to take tests has helped her so much in college.

7.  Encourage their budding interests.

It's never too early to encourage our young teen's special interests.  And isn't this one of the reasons that we homeschool, anyway?  

My daughter's interests in irish dancing and student government activities, with Youth and Government, helped her get into college.  There are many ways to show your child's leadership skills, volunteering at church, assisting in a class in co-op are just a few.

Colleges want to know what your child is really about. They see lots of applications from students who are just doing activities to build up their applications.  But they want to see students who have interests that are real, and our homeschoolers can excel in that.

These are my favorite tips for preparing your middle schooler for college, while keeping the flavor of your homeschool strong.  

What would you add to the list?  Homeschooling is a great way to educate our kids, and to prepare them for future endeavors in their life, including the college option.

Below is a picture of my daughter's first day on campus, after graduating from our homeschool.  



Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,


Betsy




Betsy is mom to her now college grad, whom she homeschooled from day one.  She blogs at BJ's Homeschool, about the early yearshigh school & college and wrote the book - Homeschooling High School with College in Mind.   She offers free homeschool help through messages at BJ's Consulting

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The Art of Simple Book Making- Your Child is an Author!




This article tells how to get your kids making little books, from just construction paper and crayons or felt pens.  Get your kids writing, or creating stories which they can then dictate to you, as they will learn so much from that!


Do you have a little writer in your family?  

When my daughter was little, she loved to tell stories and enjoyed make believe, dressing up in costumes, and creating stories with her stuffed animals.  I wanted to find a way that she could do that, with a simple book making activity.

She was just learning what written words meant, and loved following along during our story times, but she was not yet ready to put the words on the page herself.  She enjoyed describing her artwork to me, and loved it when I wrote her words for her, on the paper. 

Today, I'd like to share how we made our simple books, discussing:

- Setting up the pages
- Encouraging your child to write their own story
- Doing each page, using a sample story
- Early literacy skills that your child will be learning

Why I Am Thankful for Being a Homeschooling Mom




Here at BJ's Homeschool, I usually share about our homeschooling activities and the like.  

But today, I'd like to share something different....I want to focus on why I am thankful for being a homeschool mom.

With my daughter now a senior in college, I can see all the benefits that homeschooling has brought to her and to our family, much more clearly than I could when we were in the thick of things!

There are so many reasons why I am thankful for having homeschooled for 15 years.  

And in honor of Thanksgiving, I have also gathered up some of my family's favorite photos from our nature road trips....

Are you a nature-oriented family, too?

For Thanksgiving last year, my husband and I got together with our daughter and her friend, and enjoyed a wonderful meal together. (Our extended family is a continent away..)


We did an ethnic celebration this year.  You see, my daughter's favorite food is east indian food. Every week, when we could afford it, I would take my daughter to our local indian restaurant for lunch.  

HOMESCHOOLING HELPED WITH SENSORY NEEDS

When she was little, my daughter who has some sensory issues, was a very, very picky eater.  All she wanted to eat was soft foods, like macaroni and cheese, every day.  But she learned to like rice.  So I often took her to our little east indian restaurant, where she enjoyed her rice, and gradually added in other foods, too, like chicken curry.  

You see, it was also a soft food. This helped her to expand her food choices so well, that it became one of our favorite homeschool traditions!



I am thankful that I could build in activities during our homeschool day, that met these individual needs, with food, and everything else. 

And the fact that my daughter was a picky eater, ended up adding a lot of  variety of foods for our family.  Above, is one of my daughter's new favorites, tandori chicken.  


And what does she want to do in the fall...but go on a "field trip" to pick out a pumpkin...at the same place we used to go to for our fall homeschool field trip.....

HOMESCHOOLING BUILT A LOVE OF NATURE

Nature Road Trips - I love how homeschooling gave us ample time to explore my daughter's interests, and to pass on our love of nature...

We gave my daughter a camera, when she was 8....



....and she's been taking pictures ever since.  I loved teaching her about this favorite hobby of mine, through the years.  It even became a high school elective.


My husband is always snapping pictures of the mountain, Mount Rainier....


HOMESCHOOLING BUILT STRONG RELATIONSHIPS

I also love that my husband was a part of our daughter's education, from the start.  She still seeks him out for his wise counsel, as she decides on possible life tracks, and future possibilities.

Driving practice became a special time for talks with my teen.  And somehow doing short nature drives helped my daughter to feel comfortable to share her heart with me.

HOMESCHOOLING BUILT LIFE LONG INTERESTS

I love taking pictures of the trees.....tall and serene....and I passed my love of photography onto my daughter.  It is still a passion of hers...


She loves taking photos of the glorious colors in the fall....


I am thankful that my daughter still wants to do these nature photo trips with us...to the city and...


..............out to rivers and streams....


...stopping to watch the salmon come back to spawn........


I am so grateful that this love of nature has stuck with her.... It's in her heart.

IT ALSO TAUGHT HER IT IS OK TO MAKE MISTAKES

Homeschooling taught my daughter, not only to love learning, but to know that she could make mistakes, too..........

She tends to be a perfectionist, like her mom.  And as a 2e kid, she hated it when she made any mistakes.

For years we avoided doing any quizes or tests, to focus on the joy of learning itself. 

She learned that it was not about avoiding making mistakes.  But that learning was a joy in itself.  And that we all make mistakes along the way.  

....And that making mistakes was a part of learning.

HOMESCHOOLING PREPARED HER WELL FOR COLLEGE

Homeschooling taught our daughter good study skills and gave her practice in organizing her own study schedule.  And it taught her to love learning, so when she got to college, she was already a motivated student. 

With our daughter now a college grad, my hubby and I are seeing the values of our homeschooling journey....

And how it has built family relationships, that have continued to be strong through the college years.

When our daughter encounters difficulties as a young adult, she knows she could turn to us for anything and that we would be there for her, no matter what.  

And we have together found wondrous surprises along the way....



My hubby and I are thankful for the joys that we have had, watching her explore her interests in college and find her way there.

One of those joys was watching her intern as a campaign manager for a city council person, as part of her Political Science studies.

She wants to run for office herself or work in the government in some way.  Can't wait to see where that will take her! 

Looking back...

Homeschooling has given us so much to our daughter and our family, including:

- helping with sensory issues
- building a love of nature
- building strong family relationships
- developing life long interests
- learning that it is ok to make mistakes
- preparing for college

  
Yet the homeschooling road is not an easy one.  There are twists and turns along the way.  Sometimes, very hard ones....

All the work of finding the resources and strategies that fit then changing them again, when they don't....correcting math work, finding a rhythm for our days,  dealing with the annual testing required in our state, and all those rainy afternoons...

Finding the personal time to take care of oneself, so you can give to your kids.

It all has a cost.  

But the homeschooling journey builds so much more than just an education.  

It builds family.  

And isn't homeschooling the best way to build a kiddo as well!  And the memories that we built through her homeschool activities, those high school activities, and the lifetime friends that we have made, through the years...are ones that we treasure.


The road ever beckons.....


Whatever my daughter encounters in her life as an adult, she knows that she has a strong foundation to lean on.  And she knows who she can come to when she needs to...

That is priceless.

May you find joy in your homeschool journey....One day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time...


It is all worth it!

My best to all of you and your precious families, too.  What makes you the most thankful this year?  

For those with college bound teens:

My teen got into each of the colleges on her list, with scholarship offers.  And it was not hard to help get her into college.  I wrote a book to share how we helped our daughter get there in 10 easy steps. 

Homeschooling High School with College in Mind, 2nd Edition gives you my best tips to help you plan your high school homeschool.  

Plus guidance for getting them into the college, if that is where they are headed.

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Recommended by: Lessa Scherrer, certified college counselor from College Inside Track.



Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,

Betsy
Betsy is a Christian and mom to her college grad whom she and her husband homeschooled through high school. She blogs at BJ's Homeschooland wrote 

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Homeschooling High School English - 3 FREE or Frugal Resources for Creative Writing




Homeschooling high school is a lot more fun with creative writing added to it.  And that can really help your high schoolers improve their essay writing skills as well. #homeschoolhghschoolenglishcurriculum #homeschoolhighschoolwriting #nanovwrimo   Note - This post may included affiliate links to products that we love and have used or would use in our  own homeschool. Please see my disclosure policy.



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