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Summary: Homeschooling our gifted daughter led to many benefits. It allowed us to adapt to her learning needs and meet her where she was at, in her academics and other developmental areas, too.
Our daughter has been a blessing to us, ever since we flew to China to adopt her as an infant.
At the same time, she has taught us a lot along the way.
We knew she was gifted from the first days we received her, on a bus ride in China.
Soon there were also signs of attentional and sensory issues, but since we were already homeschooling these were mostly easily managed.
With my OT background, we worked to accommodate things to meet her needs, as best we could.
We knew that our school district did not have a gifted program that would meet her needs. So we took the plunge and tried our hand at homeschooling.
Our adventures with homeschooling led to many positives. Are you thinking about trying your hand at homeschooling?
Here's 7 ways that homeschooling helped our 2e daughter, starting with adapting things to her needs:
Our adventures with homeschooling led to many positives. Are you thinking about trying your hand at homeschooling?
Here's 7 ways that homeschooling helped our 2e daughter, starting with adapting things to her needs:
1. Homeschooling allowed us to adapt to our daughter's unique learning needs.
If we had chosen the public school route, my kiddo would have been learning from the teacher, who spoke in front of the class. However, as a homeschooler, she was able to learn in the ways that worked best.
2. Homeschooling allowed us to change out our curriculum or unschooling projects when things were not working.
It was trial and error, lots of errors...but we had time to try different things...and ways to meet her sensory needs. Ways she would not have had in school. We focused on hands-on approaches, like what Oak Meadow Homeschool curriculum provides.
3. Homeschooling enables us to teach task skills, like concentration and attention to detail, through creative activities.
We found that hands-on activities worked very well for our kiddo, helping her to develop executive functioning skills in an enjoyable and comfortable way
We did hand sewing one year, weaving another, then knitting the next. She loved it and her attention span grew quickly.
4. Homeschooling gave us the time to do a variety of outside activities.
One of them helped her a lot with her apparent auditory learning issues. Many kids with ADHD have auditory learning difficulties.
Irish Dance and Auditory Learning
My kiddo wanted to try Irish dance classes. She saw one of the classes when we were at the Parks Dept. To do that, she would have to follow the complex verbal directions for each of the Irish dance steps.
Auditory processing was very difficult for her. Any verbal directions needed to be given 3 or 4 times, or written down.
But, alas, in dance class, things were different. She could more easily follow verbal directions when physical skills were involved.
My kiddo wanted to try Irish dance classes. She saw one of the classes when we were at the Parks Dept. To do that, she would have to follow the complex verbal directions for each of the Irish dance steps.
Auditory processing was very difficult for her. Any verbal directions needed to be given 3 or 4 times, or written down.
But, alas, in dance class, things were different. She could more easily follow verbal directions when physical skills were involved.
My kid was so comfortable with physical skills, she learned to process the many verbal directions that were given.
Of course, watching the steps at the same time was a big help. But the teacher added in a lot of verbal instructions, too, and my daughter began to really be able to process that information.
As her verbal processing skills improved in Irish dance, they began to transfer to other areas as well. At home, she began to use video courses , and DVD's, which involved listening to verbal directions and lectures.
And, no longer does she struggle with auditory processing. By the time she got to college, she could easily follow her college lectures!
She had gradually build up her auditory processing skills over the years, without the pressure that she would have had in public school.
5. Homeschooling allowed our daughter to build up her own organizational skills.
Homeschooling helped my daughter to gradually learn, over the years, to organize her studies, plan her day, and prioritize and then eventually create her own study schedule.
By high school she was independent in making her own daily schedule. Once in college, she took our own work boxing technique with her!
And getting out in nature was such a great way to calm and de-stress, for both of us.
Getting out in nature and spending down time together helped to build up that relationship.
Having our daughter learn at home gave her a lot of opportunity to learn how to find and use resources. She saw me do it each year, while looking for curriculum and making calls to find outside activities in the community.
I started early on to involve her in the process. For searching for curriculum and also for making phone calls about extra-curriculars.
I would have her watch me, then eventually hand her the phone to help out. Soon she was making the phone calls herself.
When she encountered a problem with a math question, she learned to look things up herself, going to Khan Academy or other helpful sites to find the answer.
Many millennials today struggle with finding a job. When my teen graduated, she already was very comfortable searching for resources, and also with making cold calls and other methods for finding a job.
She learned that step by step through homeschooling. And she is now working in her area of study in college.
Whichever way you go as far as an educational path, I hope that you enjoy the journey with your gifted child as much as we did.
I was recently asked to write for the top special education site on this topic. I invite you to click 8 Tips for Homeschooling a Twice Exceptional Student for more ideas and encouragement.
What would you add to this list? I love reading your comments.
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Betsy
Betsy is retired O.T, homeschool blogger, and most importantly is mom to her 2e college grad, whom she homeschooled through high school. She blogs at BJ's Homeschool, about the early years, high school, college and 2e.
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