101 Reasons to Homeschool High School



Summary:  Are you thinking about homeschooling high school, but wondering if it is a good idea?  We found so many benefits from homeschooling our  teen. This list also helped us to deal with those who were negative about our choice to homeschool high school.  Note - This post may included affiliate links to products that we love and have used or would use in our  own homeschool. Please see my disclosure policy.


Are you getting "those questions" about your decision to homeschool your teen?  

Here at BJ's Homeschool, we started homeschooling when my 2e kiddo was 4. 

When it came to the teen years, we wanted to continue learning at home, as it had been working so well for our daughter through the years.  

We are so glad that we continued through high school.  Yes, it took some extra organizing and record keeping, and a few sleepless nights, where we worried if we had made the right decision for our daughter.

But we went with our hearts, and we found that homeschooling high school gave our daughter SO many benefits.  

On the top of the list, it allowed her lots of time to get to know who she was, and explore her interests and participate in activities. (A chapter in my book below includes this.)These activities helped her to find out what she wanted to do in life, and also led her to figure out her major in college.

That's our #1 reason why we homeschooled high school. 

Here's 100 more:

1.  To be there, during the all important teen years, while your child is exploring possibilities and discovering who there are.
2.  To be able to take time off for vacation anytime in the year.
3.  To be able to re-evaluate and adjust things as you go along.
4.  To build up our teens.
5.  To be able to make their own transcript, using your own grading scale.
6.  To have a better chance in getting into college, as courses can be redone, or taken at a slower pace, for better learning and a chance to get a higher GPA.
7.  To teach your teen the love of learning.
8.  And that making mistakes is a part of it all.
9.  To guide our teens, and act as mentors and offer resources to help develop their interests and gifts.


10.  To build in time for special interests, like programming, photography, etc.
11.  To allow your teen to work at her own pace/
12.  To be the one to choose your teen's curriculum/activities with her.
13.  For 1 on 1 learning.
14.  To be able to make your own homemade courses, such as in history.

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15.  To build in goof off time in the day and let them still be a kid.
16.  To get to watch our teens as they learn and develop as an individual.
17.  To set up the day as you want it to go, for your teen.
18.  To take time for handwork, birdwatching, kayaking!, etc.
19.  To be there, when deep conversations naturally occur.
20.  To have lots of time for electives.  My book below has a list of 100 ideas for your teen's electives.
21.  To be able to explore unique activities.


22.  To build leadership skills.  (link to this post above)
23.  To do service and volunteering in the community.
24.  To take time for meals, and eat when our teens need to.
25.  To be able to guide them as they explore the possibilities in the world around them.
26.  To decide when to take a break.
27.  To be able to teach family values and morals.
28.  To avoid busy work.
29.  The have the ability to choose where to study, at a park, at the library, etc.
30.  Avoid having to sit in a classroom desk all day, and to study in the way that fits your teen's needs. 
31.  To have your teen attend a homeschool prom (link to above post). To take time for meals, and eat when our teens need to.
32.  To allow teens to be themselves, to develop as individuals, instead of just a member of a public school click.
33.  To learn in a supportive, non-pressured environment.



34.  To have a soft place to fall, for your teen.
35.  Avoid having to teach to the test.
36.  To be able to dive deeply into a subject of interest.
37.  To be able to learn together.
38.  To include music and art.


39.  To be able to make your own courses, even in English.
40.   More time for electives!
41.  To have hands-on learning opportunities.
42.  To develop sibling relationships, and keep them strong.
43.  Can continue with your own homeschooling style.
44.  To learn history as it happened, not dependent upon a curriculum chosen by "experts".
45.  For teen-led learning!



46. To do nature study (link to above post) whenever you want.
47.  All of your teen's learning counts towards high school credit.
48.  To be able to study math, without having to use the latest recommended new math approach.
49.  To allow teens to mature at their own pace.
50.  Closer family relationships.
51.  To be less affected by peer group or social pressures.
52.  To take breaks when needed.
53.  Can use online, textbooks, living literature, whatever works best.



54.  To set up your day however you want such as even doing night school.
55.  To grow life long hobbies and interests.
56.  To keep their sense of wonder and creativity.
57.  Can study at the park.
58.  To inspire and promote their interests.
59.  To provide a college prep education, high school, vocational or special needs education, in the way that fits your teen best, within a nurturing environment.
60.  To do art and music studies.
61.  For field trips!
62.  To have meaningful contact with other adults in the community.
63.  To be able to adapt the learning for any special concerns, such as ADD, ADHD, dyslexia, autism, aspergers, SPD.
64.  To have time for free reading.
65.  To be able to take care of medical issues at home.
66.  To have time to reconnect and get out in nature together.
67.  To do apprenticeships.
68.  To take lunch break whenever your teens are hungry.
69.  For co-ops and homeschool group activities.
70.  To be there, to nurture your teens emotional and spiritual development.
71.  To help them begin to find their direction and purpose in life.



72.  To be able to create their own study space.
73.  To avoid the early morning rush to the bus.
74.  To teach good nutrition, by cooking together.
75.  To foster healthy and supportive relationships.
76.  To build strong connections that will last through college and beyond.
77.  To be able to design your teen's high school education, without having to follow public school requirements.
78. To be able to plan your teen's high school years at home yourself. 
79.  To know your teen's friends..
80.  To help your teen develop appreciation for the simple things in life.
81.  To have the time for your teen to discover who they are, and learn to listen to their heart.
82.  To teach life skills.
83.  Able to monitor your teen's activities much better.
84.  To focus on your teen's strengths.
85.  To have fun with your teen.
86.  To help guide your teen's friendships.
87.  To be able to guide your teen's steps to college, vocational training, or work.
88.  For character development.
89.  Flexibility. 
90.  To have your teen's dad be a part of her education.
91.  Can repeat a class.
92.  Going on vacation during the off-season.
93.  Avoiding high school cliques.
94.  Less pressure to conform to latest fashions.
95.  Hot chocolate is available anytime.
96.  Can study on the couch, with the cat, or laying down on the floor.


97.  To be your teen's mentor, as they deal with the all important teen years.
98.  Because you know your teen best.
99.  Because you will become the person that your teen will seek out and share their heart........

And finally.....

100.  To build special memories that you will treasure always....Here's some of mine.........in this link to a video 



What memories do you want to make?   What have I left off this list?   I love reading your comments.  

Have you seen my ebook/book on Homeschooling High School

It is based on my experience homeschooling high school and  helping my teen get accepted to multiple colleges, including a tier one U.


Frugal Paperback and Kindle are on 


It lays out everything from making your 
  • homeschool transcript, 
  • finding curricula, 
  • writing course descriptions, 
  • assigning high school credit, 
  • dealing with those college references as a homeschooler and much more.  

  • With 12 high school planning printables, plus an editable transcript for you to just fill in.





Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,


Betsy




Betsy is mom to her now college grad whom she homeschooled from preK through high school.  She blogs at BJ's Homeschool, about the early yearshigh school & college and wrote - Homeschooling High School with College in Mind.   She offers free homeschool help through messages at BJ's Consulting

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Homeschool Preschool/K with Frugal Sign Language Resources





Summary:  How sign language can enhance your early learning in your homeschool.  Five frugal sign language resources that help your preschoolers/K learn language skills..  Note - This post may included affiliate links to products that we love and have used or would use in our  own homeschool. Please see my disclosure policy.



Are you homeschooling preschool or K and wanting to do it frugally?

Easy to learn basic sign language can be a fun, hands-on way for your littles to learn early language skills.


Are you also looking for some easy to do indoor activities for fall or winter this year?


Learning and playing with sign language is a great way to 

enhance academic early learning because it is literally 

hands-on. 


It turned out to be not only a fun afternoon time activity for us. 

it also enhanced the early learning that my daughter had done, that year.  

And it was full of great sensory input for my very active 2e daughter.

It is great for little fingers, as kids who are in preschool can learn:

  • hand shapes teach the A,B, C's
  • increase attention spans
  • visual perception for pre-reading
  • their numbers
  • make math more fun
  • great for sensory kids
  • tactile learning!

Older kids learning sign language

  • improve spelling
  • teach grammar

It is also great for older kids and teens, as they can begin to develop their own signing skills, to use with each other, and in the community, with deaf individuals. 


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5 FRUGAL RESOURCES FOR SIGN 

LANGUAGE


1.  - You Can Learn Sign Language -The first resource we found was this little book, by Scholastic.

You Can Learn Sign Language


This was just the ticket for us.  

It had a large variety of signs, in fact, over 300 signs, with easy to follow instructions, and colorful, clear photos of kids demonstrating each sign.  

It is written by experts in the field of deafness and American Sign Language (ASL), which is the true language of the deaf. To read more about this little book from Scholastic, click here.




Another resource that we liked was a frugal set of flashcards called Sign Language Flash Cards from Carson-Deliosa.  

It includes 105 illustrated cards that taught the signs for numbers, letters, and some very basic common words that are meaningful to kids.

AND here are the signs for THANK YOU and PLEASE. What a fun way to practice manners!
from Sign Language Flash Cards

For more information on this resource, click here.


3.  - Little Hands Big Hands -by Kathy MacMillan


This great little resource, for little ones up to age 5, was written by a certified ASL interpreter, who also has taught sign language for many years.  

It includes games, finger plays, songs and crafts to help build language skills through sign language fun.



A great resource, from www.lifeprint.com, done as a youtube video, with 100 basic signs to learn.  

They also offer another great beginning video in American Sign Language, which I listed below.



Also by Lifeprint, this Youtube video offers 100 basic words, clearly demonstrated by two signers.  I loved watching this video.  

Sign language not only added a lot to our days. The best part about it was that she didn't even know that was  happening...She 
was just having fun signing, and was busy teaching her dad 
the signs at dinner.  


Why do sign language?


1.  Learning the alphabet in sign 
language, is a great way for kinesthetic 
learners to master the ABC's.


2.  Learning number signs enhances your 
math program, and makes counting more fun.


3.  Learning signs helps build memory skills.


4.  Signing is fun!  It can be a nice break from your 
regular school work, and build confidence, as your 
kids learn a new sign, and share it with others.


5.  Kids can learn how grammar works, by learning how
to put together words in ASL, and that they follow
a different order than that of English.  


6.   Learning sign helps to build fine motor 
coordination for handwriting.

7.  Sign language can help develop visual spatial skills that 
are important for learning to read.


8. Signs can be used to help teach your kids
about emotions, as they learn the signs for their feelings.



Thanks for stopping by BJ's Homeschool,


Betsy

Betsy is mom to her now college grad, whom she homeschooled through high school.  She blogs at BJ's Homeschool, about the early yearshighschool
collegegifted/2e and wrote -Homeschooling High School with College in Mind, 2nd Edition,   She offers homeschool help through messages at BJ's Consulting and has had some of her articles picked up by the Huffington Post.

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Gifted Kids and Friendship - Writing Your Own Script - My Review






Does your gifted child struggle with making friends?  

Social interactions and making friends can be hard for any child.  My daughter, who is gifted and 2e, often needed extra guidance in figuring out social interactions.  She did best with a little help before and during our our homeschool group events, or with her community classes.  That helped her to figure out the social interactions that tended to have puzzle her at times.   

Social interactions can be confusing for all children, of course.  But for gifted kids, this tends to be even more of a challenge.  Writing Your Own Script: A Parent's Role in the Gifted Child's Social Development offers excellent guidance for helping gifted kids to navigate interpersonal interactions and develop friendships.

The authors, Corn Barsily Goodwin, CEO/Executive Director of the Gifted Homeschool Forum, and Mika Gustavson, both experts in the fields of giftedness and child development, offer well researched insights into this issue.  They not only address the complex social needs of gifted kids, they also offer tons of ideas for helping them to flourish and make friendships. 

Writing Your Own Script consists of six chapters, which takes you though a thorough discussion of the whys and hows of friendship building and the gifted child.  The titles of the chapters are listed below:

1.  Chapter 1 - Backdrop - What You Should Know About the Gifted Child
2.  Chapter 2 - Setting the Scene - Friendship and the Gifted Child
3.  Chapter 3 - Casting - Finding the Other Players
4.  Chapter 4 - Directing - The Parent As Guide
5.  Chapter 5 - Showtime - Applying What You Know
6.  Chapter 6 - Reviews - Raspberries and Applause

Chapter 1, Backdrop, includes an introduction and a discussion of giftedness, along with a listing of Dr. Linda Silverman's common characteristics of gifted kids.

Setting the Scene, in Chapter 2, goes into the developmental stages of friendship, along with a discussion of the typical issues that often arise with gifted kids re making friends.  

Finding the Other Players, Chapter 3, offers help for assessing your child's social needs, and how to find kids or mentors, the "other players" in their social development.

Then in Chapter 4,  Directing: The Parent as a Guide, the authors explain why more direct involvement is often needed for gifted kiddos. This chapter was the most helpful one for me.....

"Parenting outlier kids requires more direct involvement than parenting more typical children, and parents may get pushback from others who claim they are "coddling" their child.....The reality is that these children do need more intensive parenting at times, and helping them learn the skills to balance their interests with their need for social involvement is one area where parents are vitally important."  (from Chapter 4)

I experienced some of this pushback from other parents while my daughter was growing up.  Each time that she went to a group activity, she tended to do better with parental help.  I might give a  little guidance beforehand, and help her to process things afterwards.

Some of my close friends did not understand that, and thought that I was micromanaging my child, or being a helicopter parent.  Actually, I was helping to guide her, or what the authors call scaffolding, or "giving the child the support she needs so that she can grow and stretch in other areas without being restricted by her challenges."

Chapter 5, ShowtimeApplying What You Know, goes further to explain ways to enhance your child's social development, answering common issues that often come up. 

Chapter 6, Reviews, deals with the gifted 2e socialization question, and dealing with judgments from other people.

I so wish this book had been published when I was raising my daughter, as it gives helpful, and very specific advice to encourage and guide your gifted child's social development.  My family highly recommends Writing Your Own Script.

Note - My daughter is in college now, and I found that many of the ideas in this book still apply to her as she navigates friendships as a young adult.

For more information, or to order this book, please go to the Gifted Homeschoolers Forum, where there is a tons of resources and tips for nurturing and homeschooling our precious kids.


Thanks for stopping by,

Betsy



Betsy is a writer, blogger, and mom to her 21 year old daughter, who has been homeschooled all the way to college.  She blogs about high school and college, and the early years, too.  Betsy also offers homeschool help here, for all ages.  


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